Aanshu

Bichhdate nai he, mil jaate he aansu jo ek aankho me.

6od jaate he, nisaaniya apni raaho me.

Vese to kai log raahe badal kar manzile dhoönd lete he.

Par raaho par apni nisaaniya 6od jaate he.

Mita to sakta he koi bhi nisaani aansu ki,

Par dil se us nami ko mita sake vo aukad nai zamane ki,

Vese to samay bhi mita deti he lakire haatho ki,

Lekin dil se jo mita sake aansu ko, taqat aisi kisi lakiro ki.

Way of living life

I am not philosopher, poet nor writer. I wrote this because mostly people try to fit the writer in one of the form, he writes about.

I have always tried to be a good person, a good friend, great support. I have never refuse anyone to help them out of any issues. Specially for all of them whom i do feel like mine.

But what about the end. At last everyone moves on forgetting about you. They just go ahead. After a long time when any of them meet, they ask only one question "Are you still there ?". In fact you didn't move from your position. But they don't see that moving object was not you but themselves.

This case mostly happens in relationship which can't grow beyond a limit e.g. fridends, lovers, coulleges. At the time they are with you. You would be support/importance of life. As soon as they step away. They make you object to discuss about.

I have been observing attitude of many people towards life. I want to talk mainly about two of them. Both do connected to each other but they don't know about it.

First attitude, You can be a person who is available for anyone. Specially for friends, their friends, relatives and their friends. He always stands for all of these for any problem. but what at last, when he sticks in some probelm, all of them become BUSY or unavailable as of time or for any of the reason they can't stand with him. Main thing they always give a stronge REASON (in reality they prove that they want to stand but !!!!!). But what about you ?????

Second attitude, you fix some goal, fight for it. You keep going ahead in a way. At last you get the goal, you become a welknown person. But what about people around you. You certainly missed their presence. As you were never asked for it. But they stood with you to support you in your journey, until they fed up. But what at last you just leave them as they were not present at the moment you get your goal. Is this what all about getting goal ?????

I am not sure about any of these attitude. I would be wrong. But i have seen people with these type of attitude. There are many other types of attitude people do have. I am not a psychologist who can give detailed study of them. These is just what i have seen around.

"Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude."

Love

Love is purest element on the earth. It is a finest feeling to have in life. It's the strongest bind.

There are many factors in society which affects human life. That is where all love vapors. It is not love which diversify all human relations. But today's society, ahh sorry since years society, never tried to fall where love make them to, rather they are trying to stay in flow of society and religion or common human rules. They only understands what people are looking at rather to what they feel about.

This is not only problem with society but they don't want others to fall in too. Whenever and wherever anyone falls in, society either throws them out or just breaks them separate.

People don't willing to know what is it all about. They have never tried to understand where these rules came from. They knows that where they are living and what trends is there. No one knows who is pioneer of all these.

No one in the world can take place of other one

When i was kid, i heard a lot about Sunil Gawskar's attitude and nature. He was a great person, in fact he is a great person ever. There has been an incident when one reporter has told Sunil that Sachin had takeover his position and he was being performed very well also. So Sunil have smiled and replied that "no one in the world can take place of other one". He was right at his place. When someone comes in place of other person, He makes his own status, his own identity or own importance. The place of previous person can't be affected.

But Time washes all mysteries. People were afraid of dinosaurs. Time passes, now they are in books only. Many beautiful birds and dangerous animals are not present right now. People, very rarely read about all these and then talk once and then forgets about them. All respects being washed with time. Recently i have visited Rajkot. Some statues are there e.g. Princess Zaansi, Indira Gandhi, Swami Vivekanand. None of them are being renovated or taken care of. People just reminds name of them, and the spirit spreads down on the earth.

I was talking about this topic with one of my friend. He laughed and said in case of relationship, once you come across someone, no one else can come in your life to take that place. And just after 5-6 minutes, he has started blaming some other friends. And i shocked that just few days back he was praising the same guy. Few days back situation was like he could not even live without the same person. He were used to tell everything and share each and every moment together. And now as per his point, the same person is not being able to understand him. The person is not giving him enough time. But as much i know that person still have the same feelings for him. As i know both of them very well. Now a days, he is used to share everything with some other friend who is understanding him very well (as per his point of view).

If no one can takeover other's place. Then how one person who is same, have not been changed a bit even, have been less understandable. How do the same person been liable to blame everything while nothing has been change between them.

Is it matter of time or matter of needs or nature ? If no one can take place of other one then why after marriage spouse starts crying on each other's shoulder instead of parents. Why after getting child a woman start satisfying her child instead of husband. Many people have more then one lover, Why don't they even think about older.

I am not getting any answer about all these. If life is all about keep changing then why do people keep promising. Why don't they look back and confirm that he has not broke any heart or he has not left any important place which can't be filled again by anyone else.

Truth of life

Recently I was watching the movie "Zindagi na milegi dubara". There was an incidence in movie when Farhan Akhtar had asked naseeruddin shah to speak truth. He had replied the following line.

"Sach hota kya he. Sab ka khud ka version hota he sach ka."

"What is truth, everyone has their own version of truth"

That left me to think of it after completion of the movie. It's perfectly true. Except all universal truth, all truth has it's relative reference. Law of relativity, all truth depends on its reference rather than matter of facts.