Take Over
Hi. Its been long I have written anything. I was bit busy with my professional life.
When I was kid, I heard about Sunil Gawskar's attitude and nature. He was a great person, in fact he IS a great person. There has been an incident when one reporter told Sunil that Sachin had takeover his position and he has been performing very well too. So Sunil smiled and replied "No one in the world can take place of other person". He was right at his place. When someone comes in place of other person, he makes his own status, identity or importance. The place of previous person is not affected.
But time washes all mysteries. People were afraid of dinosaurs. Time passes they are in books only. Many beautiful birds and dangerous animals are not present right now. People, very rarely read about all these and the talk once and then forget about them. All respects being washed by time. Recently I visited Rajkot. Some statues are there e.g. Jhansi ki Rani, Indira Gandhi, Swami Vivekanand. None of them are being taken care of. People just remember their name, and the spirit spreads down on the earth.
I was talking about this with one of my friend. He laughed and said in case of relationship, once you come across someone, no one else comes in your life to take their place. And just after 5 minutes, he started blaming one of his other friends. I was shocked that just few days back he was praising the same guy. Few days back situation was like he could not even live without that person. They used to tell everything and share each and every moment together. And now as per him, the same person is not able to understand him. The person is not giving him enough time. But as much as I know that person still has the same feelings for him. I know both of them very well. Now a days, my friend shares everything with one other friend who understands him very well (as per his view). He used send SMS to that person about everything.
If no one can takeover someone else place, then how the person who has not changed a bit even, has become less understanding. How do the same person been liable to blame everything while nothing has change between them.
Our mom was understanding our each and every signs when we were baby, and now in all matters you say to your mom that she would not understand. Your father have took all the decision for you up to your college time, and after that why in many of the matters you don't even discuss with your father. Why after marriage your same brother or sister become irritating. Why after break up your old lover becomes bitch and second one becomes angel. In none of the above cases, the person has changed.
Is it matter of time or needs or nature ? I am not getting any answer about this. If life is all about change then why do people promise. Why don't they look back and confirm that they have not broken any heart or not left any important place which can't be filled again by anyone else.
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