Airtel - Dil ki baat bata kar to dekho

Nigaahe nigaaho se mila kar to dekho,
naye logo se rishta bana kar to dekho.

Hasrate dil me dabane se kya haasil hoga,
apne hoth hila kar to dekho.

Khamoshi se kab hoti he khwahise puri,
dil ki baat bata kar to dekho.

Jo he dil me use kar do bayan,
khud ko ek baar jata kar to dekho.

Aashmaan simat jaayega tumhaari aagosh me,
chahat ki baanhe felaa kar to dekho.

Nigaahe nigaaho se mila kar to dekho,
Dil ki baat bata kar to dekho.

one of the best ad by Airtel. No need to elaborate. Just go and watch the video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5pUpd5-wVo

Take Over

        Hi. Its been long I have written anything. I was bit busy with my professional life.

        When I was kid, I heard about Sunil Gawskar's attitude and nature. He was a great person, in fact he IS a great person. There has been an incident when one reporter told Sunil that Sachin had takeover his position and he has been performing very well too. So Sunil smiled and replied "No one in the world can take place of other person". He was right at his place. When someone comes in place of other person, he makes his own status, identity or importance. The place of previous person is not affected.

        But time washes all mysteries. People were afraid of dinosaurs. Time passes they are in books only. Many beautiful birds and dangerous animals are not present right now. People, very rarely read about all these and the talk once and then forget about them. All respects being washed by time. Recently I visited Rajkot. Some statues are there e.g. Jhansi ki Rani, Indira Gandhi, Swami Vivekanand. None of them are being taken care of. People just remember their name, and the spirit spreads down on the earth.

        I was talking about this with one of my friend. He laughed and said in case of relationship, once you come across someone, no one else comes in your life to take their place. And just after 5 minutes, he started blaming one of his other friends. I was shocked that just few days back he was praising the same guy. Few days back situation was like he could not even live without that person. They used to tell everything and share each and every moment together. And now as per him, the same person is not able to understand him. The person is not giving him enough time. But as much as I know that person still has the same feelings for him. I know both of them very well. Now a days, my friend shares everything with one other friend who understands him very well (as per his view). He used send SMS to that person about everything.

        If no one can takeover someone else place, then how the person who has not changed a bit even, has become less understanding. How do the same person been liable to blame everything while nothing has change between them.

        Our mom was understanding our each and every signs when we were baby, and now in all matters you say to your mom that she would not understand. Your father have took all the decision for you up to your college time, and after that why in many of the matters you don't even discuss with your father. Why after marriage your same brother or sister become irritating. Why after break up your old lover becomes bitch and second one becomes angel. In none of the above cases, the person has changed.

        Is it matter of time or needs or nature ? I am not getting any answer about this. If life is all about change then why do people promise. Why don't they look back and confirm that they have not broken any heart or not left any important place which can't be filled again by anyone else.

“The beautiful thing about learning is nobody can take it away from you.”

Be Flexible

It’s been long I thought about this. At the time I joined my collage, one of my well wisher gave me advises to be flexible in all terms. His main point was towards the technology I work upon. But I took that advice very seriously and implemented it in all aspect of life.

Today I am doing a job in a fixed technology. But in life I am so much flexible that I don't even know that what I was. I have never thought about it. But today I went for smoking and I started an unusual brand. So shopkeeper asked me why is this? So I replied that I have throat infection so. He just laughed and said "activa nai to aviator(i bought new scooter), gala kharab he to lights, achha he".

I just shocked what I m doing. And I started thinking about it. I was very frank and fun loving person before. After completing my college, I have never stand for anything that I would to prove my existence. I have been keep changing myself for the sake of something those are not much important life. I have never changed myself to go ahead in career but to go ahead in relations. Some of my classmates are settled very well now. But they are so practical that they don't even care about others.

I have never wanted to see myself as a very powerful person. One who can change existing flow of any firm or one who is owner his own company.

But at some level it seems like. Nothing would come with you. Some fights for ego, some for self-respect, some to always prove their selves true. But nothing would go with them. And nothing is more important than life to keep moving.

I don't have ego problem or self-respect problem. But I am too lazy to fight for anything that I manage with alternate.

After such a long time, I m realizing that doing so I lost myself. Right now I m what my well-wishers want me to be(and its also have not been 100%).

“Stay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach.”

Every relationship has an expiry

I recently heard this line "Every relationship has an expiry". It made me think about for a while that is it really true. But it seems like, not only relations but each and everything around us has an expiry. It sounds funny but many mobile sim providers gave life time validity scheme, but after activating that, one can realize that it is up to 20-30 years only. I know it as I am having it in my Airtel mobile.
I am not being pessimist, but nothing is going to be with you for lifetime, not parents, not brother or sister, not friends, not the thing that you love the most. Have you ever heard that a person’s pyre have been consisted of all of favorite things or loved ones.

I think the sentence that "Everything that has a beginning has an end" is true also. Everything is connected. Everything has a goal including human. Sometimes some cannot realize it but ultimately travels to the end. The thing that differs from person to person is the way they travel and the way the end takes place.

When I discussed this topic to some of my close friends, One told me that “dude, you are right, there is one expiry date for each and everything. But can you tell me who defines this date.” For a time being I couldn’t answer his question. Then I thought about it. In case of other things, many science factors affect this date. So please excuse me, I m little bit poor in science. But in relationship, this date can’t ever be predefined. We, people define it as per our need. We break relations. There are many reasons why one breaks relation with someone. I don’t need to give you the list of reasons. But the truth is, the expiry date of any relation is defined by person involved.

Another point, I got in my mind is that in relationship I have never seen any tag like “best use before” or “expiry date:” then why after some time it expires so suddenly. And why after expiration everyone gets reason for that. If it is reasonable then why can’t you define it before starting it? Yeah I know some relations are by born and some are by law (in-laws). What about other? I don’t know its answer or probably can’t speak it out here.

I have a very little experience of relationship, but I learned one thing. People may stop talking to you, may avoid you, may be insult you, but they won’t ever forget what you make them feel.

“No one is worth your tears, but once you find one that is, he won't make you cry”

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Special Thanks

It’s been a long I write anything. It’s not because I didn’t get anything to write but just I couldn’t write as of time. The articles I wrote before contain totally negative thoughts. Many of my friends read them and scolded me that what is this, why are you writing like this. But they couldn’t make me to write positive instead I stopped writing to wait for positive thoughts. But I failed.

I just realized how life changes. “6th January”, my birthday, just one year back, there was a time my friends were with me and they didn’t let me sleep for whole night and day, not to just to celebrate my birthday but it was my last birthday of college time. I won’t ever forget that day. Few days back “31st December”, New Year day, all of my friend were drunk. We watched movie sleeping on one bed, Ohh I think we didn’t watch the movie but laptop completed its job to execute the whole movie code and then to be shut down automatically. We were habituate to watch each and every movie however it is.

You may murmur why I am writing this all here. Just some days back one of my birthdays passed. I didn’t even realize that it was an important day of my life. I couldn’t even celebrate it the way we were. It’s not like that I didn’t have company or I didn’t have enough time to do all those things. But it is matter of lifestyle.

One year back I was a student. I was used to drive bike like race, play games wherever I want, open computer cabinet without reason, to drink whisky in open street, to smoke in hostel room, to laugh loudly anywhere I like to, to pass whole day sitting at tea stole as well whole night, to fight with anyone with whom I get angry, to sit in front of computer for whole night playing game, to bunk the classes and go to canteen to sit with the professors, to complete extra assignment given because of low attendance, to beg to HOD not to call up parents. This list is long but not contains all that we did. No list can contain all the things you do in life time. But point here is I can’t do any of the above things now in my life. I am a responsible employee of a reputed IT industry.

Now a day I am not driving bike that much fast. If some day I get more frustrate then and then I drive fast. My office computer is facing some problem, but I can’t do anything with it. Everyone around smiles to each other like they are family, but even on a good joke no one laughs loudly so I. Now the word Canteen, night life, bunk and attendance don’t have any existence.

This article is totally dedicated to all my friends who spend their time with me doing all those useless things. Friends don’t forget each other just not because of bond, but the time they spend together is always unique. And new friend can come into your life; they may share time with you better than old. But no one can take others'.

Thanks you to the all of my friends to share such a great time with me. This includes current friends (colleagues) also.